Wingmate — AI dating coach for Tinder, Hinge, Bumble & more

The core loop

Drop a screenshot. Watch the read.

One session with Ava, start to finish. The thread goes in, you ask your question, and her read streams back with a reply you can copy.

New in 1.5

Your coach, in your keyboard.

Stay in the conversation. Switch to the Wingmate keyboard, tap Reply, and your coach reads what's on your screen and suggests a reply for you to edit and send.

Wingmate Keyboard

Tap Reply. Get a line that fits.

Start screen assist, open the chat, and switch to Wingmate with the globe key. Each time you tap Reply, the keyboard sends one picture of your screen to your coach, who writes a suggestion that fits the thread.

One tap, one picture. Nothing streams, and nothing is sent while you type.
A suggestion drops into your text box. You edit it and decide whether to send it.
Screen assist ends after 15 minutes and has its own permission you can turn off any time.
Got a reply in the Wingmate app? Tap Use in keyboard and it waits in the keyboard's Saved tab.

Live replies need Allow Full Access and an internet connection, and each one uses a daily coaching message. Some apps and secure text fields don't allow custom keyboards or screen recording.

An example chat with Emma, with the Wingmate keyboard open below it: Jade is the selected coach, Screen assist is on with 12 minutes left, and one Warm suggestion reads Coffee date it is, what day works for you? above a New reply button

Example conversation

What you get

Stop guessing what to say.

Wingmate reads your conversations, knows the app you're on, and gives you advice that fits the moment.

Screenshot Analysis

Share a screenshot of the conversation. Your coach tells you what's working, what isn't, and what to send next.

Voice Coaching

Tap the mic and talk instead of typing. Tap Listen to hear a reply in your coach's own voice.

Personalized Openers

Tell your coach what's on their profile and get openers written for that person, on that app.

Platform-Aware Coaching

Tinder is short and punchy. Hinge runs on prompts. On Bumble, you each get one opening message. Pick the app you're on and your coach adapts to how it works.

Date Planning

Date ideas that fit what they're into, and a simple way to ask. Show up with a plan.

Connection Profiles

Keep a profile for everyone you're talking to, from first match to exclusive. Your coaches remember the history, so the advice fits where things stand.

A look inside

Real coaching, real screens.

Meet all four coaches at work, then Connections and the opener vault. Tap below to see them in Light or Dark.

Marcus · Confident & Direct

Here's what to send.

Marcus reads the whole thread and hands you a reply, with the reasoning behind it. You learn the why while you send the what.

Replies you can copy in one tap
Honest feedback on your draft, and a stronger version
A push when you're overthinking it

Marcus mid-conversation on Hinge, handing you a suggested reply to copy with the reasoning around it

Jade · The Female Perspective

A second opinion on how it lands.

Before you hit send, Jade reads your message from the other person's side.

Why a line might fall flat, and what reads better
Rewrites that still sound like you
A natural way to show you're interested

Jade explains why a looks-first compliment falls flat and rewrites it

Eli · Chill & Funny

Keep it light.

Eli riffs witty openers off a profile and keeps the banter loose. And when a thread goes quiet, he'll talk you off the double-text ledge instead of feeding the spiral.

Playful openers that aren't try-hard
A thoughtful tone when things get serious
A calm voice before you double-text

Eli talks you out of double-texting and suggests a light follow-up to copy if a day goes by

Ava · Strategic & Analytical

Screenshot in. Strategy out.

Drop in a screenshot and Ava breaks the exchange down point by point, in plain language.

What they said, and what it might mean
An honest call when there isn't enough to go on
A reply to copy, and your next move

Ava's read of a shared screenshot — READ and EXECUTION notes, a suggested reply to copy, and next-move chips

Connections

Who's who, at a glance.

Everyone you're talking to gets a profile. Your coaches remember the details, so the advice fits the person.

A stage tracker from matching to exclusive
Quick context and private notes on each person
One memory, shared by all four coaches

Opener Vault

Your best lines, saved for later.

Save the openers you like and they're filed by app and by person, ready to reuse. Build a library of lines that sound like you.

Written for the app you're on
Drawn from their profile
One-tap copy the moment you match

Opener vault — saved lines filed under Bumble and Messages, tagged First Message, Re-engage, Reply, and Date Idea, each tied to a connection

Connections

Your dating life, organized.

Screenshots of their profile, your private notes, and what your coach has learned, all in one place. Tap "Get coaching" and your coach is already caught up.

The Connections list — Sophia, Emma, Olivia, and Chloe with their apps and stages from Matching to Exclusive, plus an Archived section below

Every connection, one list

Profile & photo gallery

Coach memory and coaching sessions on a connection — private notes, what the coach remembers, and past sessions in one place

Coach memory & sessions

Light or dark

Looks right either way.

Light for the morning coffee, dark for the midnight text. Wingmate follows your phone, or you can choose in Settings.

Conversation history across all four coaches in dark mode

Dark · Conversations

Coach home scoped to Sophia on Bumble in dark mode — a Wingmate Keyboard set-up card and starters like Help me reply to Sophia's last message, Is Sophia interested?, and Read this screenshot for me

Dark · Coach home

Ava reading a pasted conversation screenshot in dark mode — a READ on the openings Olivia left and what to do with them

Dark · Screenshot read

Light · Coach

Light · Settings

Ava reading the same pasted conversation screenshot in light mode — the same READ on the openings Olivia left and what to do with them

Light · Screenshot read

The team

Meet your coaches.

Pick the coach who fits the moment, ask another for a second opinion, or turn on Auto and let Wingmate choose.

Marcus

Confident & Direct

Your bold wingman. Marcus gives it to you straight, then tells you exactly what to say.

Jade

The Female Perspective

Your candid, thoughtful guide. Jade reads the tone of an exchange and helps you come across the way you mean to.

Eli

Chill & Funny

Your laid-back coach. Eli brings the witty openers and the playful banter, and keeps things fun.

Ava

Strategic & Analytical

Your clear-thinking coach. Ava separates what was said from what you're guessing, then helps you choose a practical next step.

How it works

Three steps to better conversations.

No quiz, no personality test. Just a coach and a conversation.

Pick your coach

Choose Marcus, Jade, Eli, or Ava. Or let Auto pick for you.

Share your situation

Drop a screenshot, describe the person, or just say what's on your mind. Your coach already knows the platform and your history.

Get coached

Specific advice, a reply to send, and the reasoning behind it.

Works where you date

Coaching that knows the platform.

Every app has its own rules. Your coach adjusts to each one.

Tinder Short and punchy

Hinge Prompt-based

Bumble Anyone can open — one message each

Instagram Story replies, not pickup lines

Snapchat Snaps, not just chat

Messages Its own game

Any app Wherever you're talking

Common questions

Straight answers.

Is Wingmate a chatbot I date?

No — it's the opposite. Wingmate is a coach for your real dating life. You talk to Marcus, Jade, Eli, or Ava about the conversations you're having, and they hand you replies to send. Nobody here plays a romantic partner. The whole point is what happens off the app.

Do I have to connect my dating apps?

No — Wingmate doesn't plug into Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, or anything else, and it isn't affiliated with them. You share what you choose: drop a screenshot of a thread or describe the situation, and your coach works from that.

What happens to my screenshots and messages?

They go to our server and on to the AI that writes your coaching. Our server doesn’t store your screenshots, screen images or messages. For keyboard and Share replies it keeps the suggested replies and a short summary for 30 minutes, so a retry doesn’t use another coaching message. Your connections, notes, openers, and chat history live on your phone, and you can clear your conversations in Settings. There's no account and no ads. The privacy policy has the full picture.

Does the Wingmate keyboard read my chats?

Only what’s on your screen when you tap Reply. The keyboard never sends what you type, and it can’t open profiles or earlier messages. When you tap Reply or New reply, it sends one picture of your whole screen — which can include notification banners — to our server and on to Anthropic to write a suggestion. The privacy policy explains exactly what’s sent and kept.

Do the coaches remember the people I'm talking to?

Yes — that's the Connections tab. Each person you're tracking has a profile: the platform, the stage things are at, your notes, and the details your coaches pick up along the way. All four coaches share that memory, so switching from Marcus to Ava for a second opinion doesn't mean starting over. It's all stored on your phone.

What's free, and what does Wingmate Plus add?

The free tier includes all four coaches, screenshot coaching, openers, connections, and date planning, with 3 coaching messages a day. Wingmate Plus raises that to 60 a day. Replies, screenshot reads, and openers all count as coaching messages, whichever coach you ask. Read-aloud has its own daily allowance, which Plus also raises. Prices are shown in the app.

Where do I get Wingmate?

On the App Store, for iPhone running iOS 17 or later. Download Wingmate — it's free to download with 3 coaching messages a day, and Wingmate Plus is a subscription that raises it to 60.

AI dating coaches that actually get it.

Drop a screenshot. Watch the read.